When the default mode of the flesh is "me first, me most, me best, ..." it takes incredible focus and discipline to set aside selfish ambition and humbly count others more significant than ourselves. The Philippians 2:3 life can't start from the body; it has to start in the mind. And it won't start in our minds on its own; that's why Paul tells the Philippians in v. 5 to have the mind of Christ.
The most important word in Phil. 2:3 is hegemenoi ("to count," to "consider," to "think," to "have the opinion," etc. in English). If the individual Christian is to count, consider, or esteem others as more important than him or herself, is it reasonable to assume that the Philippians 2:3 principle applies at the church-to-church level as well? I have to believe so! I have to believe it's right, good, and proper for each church to live out Philippians 2:3 in relation to other churches.
What might this look like?
Don't get me wrong, I appreciate every church's undesignated gift to Cleveland Hope whether large or small. This enables us to collectively meet needs across our network from a central fund. Please don't stop giving to your association!! But can a church make Philippians 2:3 a more hands-on, direct, and targeted mindset and lifestyle? As you prepare mission budgets for 2020 (i.e., what you’ll invest in the Kingdom beyond your church), consider setting aside a few hundred or even a few thousand dollars for the purpose of blessing a specific neighboring church and/or pastor or two. Would you consider reaching out to a couple of churches or pastors whom your church could serve in such a way that your church receives no tangible or material benefit but only the intangible blessing of knowing you invested in the Kingdom next door, next town, next ward, next zip code over? What's that neighboring church got in the way of obstacles that your church doesn't have (or does have but to a lesser degree)? Can you help them purchase a van because they're reaching folks who can't afford cars? Can you help them with some money and manpower to patch a leaky roof or refurbish a church bathroom? What's that neighboring church got in terms of opportunities that your church doesn't have but that your church could help them seize with some periodic volunteers or bucks?
This is how a net works. A fish may not swim into every square of a net at once (unless it's a really big fish!), but that part of the net depends on all the other links (especially those closest to it) to lend it strength so that the catch isn't lost. It's radical (downright unfathomable to many) in our competitive culture to consider others more significant than oneself. Sadly, a church can become so convinced it's at the epicenter of God's global mission that it can actually miss the mind of Christ, which always sacrifices self to bless others.
What will your church do in 2020 to rock the Philippians 2:3 principle?